Can my wife love me again is a question no married man wants to find himself searching for an answer to. Anyone who has been married for any length of time knows that relationships change over the years. The priorities of each spouse may change but at the foundation is always a strong and unwavering love. If you start to feel as though that’s shifted and the woman you married no longer cares for you as deeply as she once did, it can leave you feeling lost and confused. If you’re not ready to give up on your marriage you need to take some steps to reclaim that love and get her to adore you more than she ever has before.
The first step you need to take towards rebuilding the love with your wife is to determine where things went wrong. Quite often a man will mistake a woman’s frustration over certain aspects of the relationship for her not being in love anymore. This can happen if the couple is facing an ongoing conflict that they just can’t seem to find a mutual resolution too. This can involve just about anything but generally has more to do with raising children or balancing the family’s budget, than anything else. Men and women view conflict very differently and even though you may be able to push the issue aside and still feel close to your wife, it may not be that way for her. Think about any problems that you two are now dealing with and then seriously consider her side of the issue. Try and find a way to resolve things even if it means compromise on your part. You have to decide if being right on the issue is worth risking your marriage and your wife’s love and devotion.
Marriage is a collaborative effort and when things are going well both people can take credit. They also both shoulder the blame if things are in a more difficult place. Your wife’s shift in feelings may be partially your fault if you’ve been taking her for granted. In some marriages, both spouses are guilty of this. They allow other things to take priority over their relationship and the end result is that they start to neglect each other’s needs. If you have been doing this with your wife, it’s time to start treating her differently. Make an effort to show and tell her each day how lucky you feel to be her husband. Start doing small things to make her life easier. If she feels that you genuinely love and appreciate her, it can change the entire dynamic of the relationship. Romancing your wife again may just be what you need to do to get back to the loving place you want to be in.
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