If you still love your ex you probably feel as though you’re suffering through emotional torture each and every day. Loving someone you are no longer with brings with it a whole set of unique challenges. It’s certainly not easy trying to figure out what went wrong while at the same time reminiscing about the love you once shared. If you wish you could get back to that loving place with your ex, there are things you can do to make that happen.
When you still love your ex you’re naturally going to want to try and convince them that the two of you belong together. Everyone has their own approach when it comes to doing this. Some people believe that revealing everything they are feeling to their ex will help win back their love. They may do this by repeatedly calling their ex in tears begging for a second chance or they may write their ex a very long, detailed email explaining why the break up is the biggest mistake their ex has ever made. If you’ve already tried either of these approaches you know that they just don’t work. You can’t win back the love of someone by showing them that you are desperate.
Taking on a more mature attitude will definitely help if you still love your ex and want them back. First, before you do anything else, you have to apologize for anything you did wrong in the relationship that added to the break up. Then you have to accept that your ex needs time to work through their feelings. If you don’t give your ex this time, you are damaging your chances of getting them back. Don’t contact your ex for several weeks. Instead use that time to focus on self improvement. When your ex contacts you again, and they will because they’ll miss you, you want to show them that you are an even better version of the person they first fell in love with.